Update express integration to be able to ignore layers like `router` or `middleware` spans

### Description

https://.com/getsentry/sentry-javascript/blob/develop/packages/node/src/integrations/tracing/express.ts

Similar to the work we did in https://.com/getsentry/sentry-javascript/pull/16553 for Koa, we should expose `ignoreLayers` and `ignoreLayersType` from the underlying OTEL instrumentation.

https://www.npmjs.com/package/@opentelemetry/instrumentation-express

Exposed options:

Options | Type | Example | Description
-- | -- | -- | --
ignoreLayers | IgnoreMatcher[] | [/^\/_internal\//] | Ignore layers that by match.
ignoreLayersType | ExpressLayerType[] | ['request_handler'] | Ignore layers of specified type.

`ignoreLayers` accepts an array of elements of types:
  - `string` for full match of the path
  - `RegExp` for partial match of the path
  - `function` in the form of (path) => boolean for custom logic

`ignoreLayersType` accepts an array of following strings:
  - `router` is the name of express.Router(),
  - `middleware`
  - `request_handler` is the name for anything that's not a router or a middleware


Options	Type	Example	Description
ignoreLayers	IgnoreMatcher[]	[/^/_internal//]	Ignore layers that by match.
ignoreLayersType	ExpressLayerType[]	['request_handler']	Ignore layers of specified type.